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What Happens When You Hold Someone You Love

There’s more happening in a hug than you think.

When was the last time someone’s hug changed your day?
That moment of warmth that made your shoulders drop and your breathing slow down – it’s not magic, it’s biology.

Human skin is covered with sensory nerves that don’t just detect temperature or pressure – some are tuned specifically to emotional touch. When activated, they release oxytocin, the hormone that helps us feel connected and safe.

For babies, touch is their first and most powerful form of communication.
A simple hand on the belly during pregnancy, skin-to-skin contact after birth – both have measurable effects on stress levels, heart rate, and even digestion.

Researchers from Sweden found that babies held close after birth cry 50% less and have more stable sleep patterns. The body learns safety through contact – long before the brain understands words.

So when you reach out for a hug, or rest your hand on your bump, remember: that small gesture carries a big message – I’m here, you’re safe.

Download the HiMommy app to explore how your baby’s senses – touch, hearing, smell – develop week by week, and how to support that connection in simple ways.

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