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How Independence Really Begins

Independence develops through safety and availability

Independence in young children does not start with separation.
It starts with feeling safe enough to explore.

Your baby moves away, then looks back.
They try something new, then return to you for reassurance.
This back and forth is how confidence develops.

When comfort is available, curiosity grows.
When reassurance is consistent, exploration becomes easier.

This process starts early.
Even infants show early forms of exploration balanced by a need for closeness. Over time, this balance supports confident movement, play, and learning.

Supporting independence does not mean pushing your child forward.
It means staying available while they discover what they can do on their own.

Download the HiMommy app to follow how confidence and independence develop naturally from pregnancy through the early toddler years.

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